Category Archives: Financial Slave
October Update
Its so cute
the way he asks why he cant just come relax & watch tv with Me!
lol
Cause youre here to serve,
duh!!
Los Angeles FinDom Miss Sheri Darling
There are few things that feel more satisfying than knowing you have sacrificed to serve Me. Sure Ill be amused for a bit by a slave who will pay for a cam session, or to send a tribute to be sweet. What I really enjoy is total power exchange. I want to hold the strings to you puppet, and control your every thought, your wallet and your cock. When My slaves become obsessed with Me is when I begin to feel worshipped, not because you sent Me $100 to watch Me smoke or bought Me yet another pair of shoes. A true financial worshipper wants the tribute to elevate Me & My lifestyle. I am accustomed to having slaves pay to fly Me around the world, to pay to become someone that I think about and gifting Me with endless surprises.
Mediocre wont do, fortunately for you slaves who love to spend~ My fetishes are expensive and I love to travel.
I am open for courting by true submissives with big bank accounts who wish to be molded to My liking.
Beg for it, sluts.
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Amsterdam / November Update
I know you pervs enjoy reading My blog & thanks! I get many compliments on how I’m so open about what I do & who I am- Ive got nothing to hide. Unlike the fake dommes who will tell you they’re “the real thing” and they’ve “been this dominant since they were born” but can only copy what they see- I’m just plain real. I share My experiences, I do what I like & I do what I want.
By the way, look at My copycat. Just have to laugh when girls cant think for themselves. Couldn’t help it, had to repost this, its just too funny lol
Time for a recap to catch you all up on what Ive been up to lately. My birthday was great, so different from last year though.. Gotta say, slaves truly show their colors when it comes to birthday & Christmas time. I hate to admit, but I can be let down! lol I appreciate everything I have and am fortunate enough to enjoy but sometimes when I feel slaves are lacking or lazy I feel that same way about them & it doesnt encourage Me to want to be generous.
I just returned from a lovely trip to New York & to Amsterdam with Miss Julie Simone. We always have so much fun together! We are definitely twice as powerful and twice as spoiled when We are together. We don’t simply stop to consider each of you begging for attention. I love how amusing slaves will be just to try to gain Our time, that’s what makes Me happy. The first stop was New York for a few days. Miss Julie took Me out to one of Her favorite clubs where We decided to take over a back room to get kinky & play. Spanking, foot & boot worship, I even served up My very own flavor of champagne to the good slave on hand. Lucky fuckers.
Ways to keep your Ds relationship safe from your vanilla life.
I know My clients and slaves tend to be married. They are attached to their families who they love very much & the life that they spent years building. I never in any way want to compromise anything that makes them happy. I have felt torn at times knowing that in the minds of wives this is cheating but I confidently believe that I am the only outlet for something so true & suppressed in so many different types of men. I love that I can be who I truly am on a daily basis & when they’re with Me they get to be who they secretly wish to be but keep hidden day in & day out. I know that its a lot of work to live a double life, I wish everybody was as fortunate as I am to feel accepted & loved without judgment for who I am and for who I want to be. My slaves mean more to Me than they might ever know. I accept them, I love them & I am completely protective over them.
I realized that not all of you are completely aware of small mistakes that can take big tolls on your vanilla lives & that is the reason behind this rant. I feel it is part of My job to inform you of suggestions which will hopefully protect you from harming your family or job. Here it goes..
First of all, try to get your partner to understand what you would like to try together. Buying some toys is a great way to let Her find the rush BDSM can bring into any relationship. Stockroom just came out with a line of toys that are great basics for any beginners. CLICK HERE to take a peek. When that doesn’t work….
- Get Separate Accounts- for everything.
- Separate email accounts. This way your new social networks aren’t tied to your vanilla email address. Same with phone number. Google voice will give you a free phone number with your new email account, use it to connect your kinky social networks if those apps ask for it.
- Google voice usage will still show up on your bill if you are using your cell phone, remember that. It is still an option to use it by calling or texting from your laptop instead of the phone since there will be no documented record of it on a bill.
- Separate social networking accounts. Having a way to express yourself, to be heard and share opinions on your new experiences is important to Uus all. Set up your new social networks using your new email account and phone numbers, this way when someone allows their apps to search their contacts for other people using the same app –your hidden account wont come up.
- To communicate with those who are being watched like a hawk I recommend using data messaging apps on your smart phone. It allows you to text others by using data which wont show up as text charges on your phone bill. Or use Instant Messenger from gmail or yahoo for the same reason, no trail of an email. All you need is Internet.
- Remember to delete your browsing history on your computer and also for your Instant Messenger programs. Ctrl+H is how you bring up the menu that gives you the option to delete your history on your web browser. Instant Messengers have a setting you can change to the option of not having your chat history saved, pick that option or remember to delete your chat history before you log out.
- Passwords are your friends. Put a password lock on your phone. Password your user account on a shared computer. Make sure the passwords are a little different on each account because what is the use in having to get one password to enter every social network & account possible? The more roadblocks the better. Taking things online by using data messaging systems vs using the phone to call or text is in My opinion the best way to remain undetected, just remember to always clear your history just in case.
- Separate bank accounts, establish shit before you begin your second life. This way wife doesn’t ask about your purchases or withdraws. Give her money for her separate account, this way she is taken care of & you will have your freedom to explore your kink privately. Or the second account can be completely your secret to avoid the whole “yours, mine & ours” debate. Another idea is to buy yourself gift cards to use as debit cards. Load it up so you’ll be ready to pay for those online gifts or dinner with your Miss if you should feel the want to serve in that way. I know its one thing to send money tributes which allow Us to enjoy the lifestyle that Wwe both want to enjoy but I know many of you also have the desire to surprise your Miss by buying things off a whishlist or website & this is one way to make it happen. Make sure you check the website you are shopping or buying off of to see what cards they accept such as a prepaid visa or mastercard and these can usually be bought at a drugstore or supermarket. It does require a little more legwork but if its worth it to you then its a great solution.
- Using cash is always best to avoid a money trail. It cant be tied to any specific thing so it can be explained away easier. Sending money orders in the mail has been a great way to transfer money for Me since My mailbox & POBox both have locks. If you prefer not sending money via mail then gift cards are best since they are usually easily transferable online. NetSpend reload packs work well & are simple to use. I sometimes will ask for it as a form of deposit for sessions for gentlemen who cant or wont go online for deposits because they have to be careful. Just go to a 711 or walgreens (or find distributors locations on netspends website) & pay for the gift cards with cash to completely eliminate the paper trail. The card is loaded & has a code on the back of it which you will give Me, it allows Me to go online to My netspend account & transfer that money to My account.
- If you buy yourself a giftcard with cash & then use it to add to your niteflirt account you can still call from your laptop & worship My voice & laugh. Ive even had guys use Skype to call from niteflirt on their computers. They’re usually out of the country but it would still work if you’re just avoiding the phone bill proof of calling -Me- and the bill proof of reloading your niteflirt.
- Time – your family & friends will notice if you suddenly stop doing the things that you normally do or are suddenly missing for hours at a time. So be busy before you start a second life, keep busy, have a hobby, maintain your current responsibilities & lifestyle.The goal should be to find a way to routinely slice out time that can eventually be used for fun.
- Have an alibi – if you say you’re going somewhere then actually go & preferably have some proof. It can be a picture of where you went, it can be a receipt or an online check in on your vanilla Facebook account. Do something to show where you’ve been. This way any additional time away can & will be easily explained away.
- Don’t fall in love with Me – what Wwe have is a Ds relationship & although it can become intense I am not your primary partner. I have very clear boundaries so confusing things & blurring the lines will not be good for you, Me or anybody.
- If they find out… I suggest minimizing everything. Few people will understand but both you & I know how much & exactly what Wwe mean for each other & I’m satisfied with that. I completely respect your need for privacy & will not attempt to contact you first, ever but especially not if you tell Me you hit a bump in the relationship road. I am always here for My pets & slaves if they need Me to listen, make suggestions or just distract them.
I know people might feel betrayed or concerned for your health/safety even though you & I know what we practice is safe, sane & consensual kink. Yes, the consequence of having to face someone who isn’t open minded or just doesn’t get it really sucks, and hurts. For that I’m sorry, I wish I was powerful enough to eliminate & protect you from that. Ive had My fair share of instances where I had to defend My kink. Seeing Me happy was important to those close to Me who love Me & those are the people who I value the most in life.
It isn’t easy & there is a small price to pay if you’re secretly kinky. But its so worth it to enjoy the bliss of what true Ds relationships offer I think. I enjoy being served in a variety of ways & each slave I allow to serve Me is special to Me & not taken lightly. I think if you follow these suggestions you will be able to experience kink & know if its truly what you enjoy & want to be a part of your lifestyle. And when you realize you cant go back after being kinky & that you deserve to be happy you can fly your freak flag high & proud with Me & tell those narrow minded people to eat shit. xo
Dominatrix in Las Vegas July 2013
Financial Domination & Blackmail Fetish
I like that a guy enjoys worshipping Me financially & supports My lifestyle because he wants to.. not because he is being made to feel forced to do so.
Spoiling Me shouldn’t be a chore & it shouldn’t be something that gains you a position at My feet. I can only take them for a joke when a slave has just enough attention for Me to last until he cums. But hey, who doesn’t like a good joke, right. There is a HUGE difference between making a joke & truly entertaining Me. That’s the same amount of difference between a true slave & a horny overgrown troll.
I believe a real Domme doesn’t make demands. The power of persuasion can be more overwhelming and addicting than you might think.
guys who approach & request this type of play without some sort of sign that he is sincere usually don’t get a response. Just to be clear I do enjoy Financial Domination scenes at the dungeon – sitting on a subs face, with the computer open to a webpage, have a set dollar limit & then I get comfy until Ive spent it all. Or till the sub passes out 😉
The best & easiest way to spoil Me while also getting attention is www.Niteflirt.com/SheriDarling
xo Miss Sheri
Happy New Year, whores.
I hope you are all as excited about the new year as I am! Im very much looking forward to the best year of My life & I have lots of creative kinky ideas I am going to persue. I just moved to LA from OC! I am still available for sessions in OC as I had been since day 1 (with 24hrs notice & a deposit if I havent seen you before). I am much closer to LA play spaces, events & Ffriends so I am excited for a new begnning. I do plan on making web-cam sessions a more regular activity which I know My slaves will love. I will also be considering a new pet or two sometime soon so keep courting Me if youd like to be noticed…
- Distance training will resume now that the holidays are over & once the internet here is connected.. I keep tabs on slaves & subbies online via NiteFlirt, introduce yourself there.
- NiteFlirt phone sessions & interaction is always fun as well as entertaining for Me, call for some phone Domination www.NiteFlirt.com/SheriDarling
- To serve Me apply here on My website: http://www.SheriDarling.com
- Send Me a gift *here*
The best place for you this year is under My boot heel xoxo
Mini blog update
I have been kept very busy the last few weeks! I absolutely love being busy & especially with the pervy play partners I enjoyed spending time with in the dungeon lately which is why this is such a summarized blog update! Ive been playing with another perv who is new to the scene, which I loooove. Taking their session virginity is such a reward on top of them not having all those pesky protocol habits annoying the fuck out of Me! lol My goal for him is ball stretching. He has such a gorgeous cock, long, thick, its fucking nice to look at! I love treating him like a toy, I think he likes it too.
I met up with My fav latex fiend today, umph! I should have taken a picture of his sexy ass in the sling. Blindfolded, wrists cuffed above his head & legs up in the air I loved every moment of having My way with him. I have to admit, I go easy on him. Hes a total baby & says ouch but geeeez do I love perving out on him. Im always thinking of what to do next time when I see one of My favs. Almost instantly when they leave I have a new “to-do” list in My head of all the pervy things I forgot to do or want to do more of in different ways the next time we get together.
I leave for New York on Friday! Placing My collar of consideration on My slave & going to get lots of use of the latex & toys hes been sending Me 🙂 Ill be traveling lots in October & November so you will want to check My website calendar for dates we can play! New York, Atlanta for DomCon, then off to Dominican for a week & back for Halloween in Vegas! If you are a slave in any of those cities who want the opportunity to serve Me please contact Me through My website & politely introduce yourself if you’d like to ask for consideration.
NY slaves have 2 options to serve (Im being generous):
a) Financial Servitude- make this trip more comfy & Ill definitely be ready to return & play with you next trip!
b) Attend the Domme Dinner- in Our suite in Chelsea NY for the same reason above. This way you wont be expected to fuck off immediately after gifting Me financially. I will allow an interview during dinner & hopefully you’ll be awesome enough for Me to schedule play time with you on the next trip. Email Me for info on the dinner.
xoxo Miss Sheri
Attention Vegas Perverts!
- Introduce yourself to Me.
- Name your kink or fetish politely.
- A nice description of your experience level would be helpful as well.
- List your limits.
- Be ready to send a deposit to reserve play time.
- Pre-session consultations are available if you call My niteflirt line at www.Niteflirt.com/SheriDarling
- your introduction & request for play time or questions may be sent to Sheri.darling13@gmail.com
More complete info available on My website at www.SheriDarling.com
Lets get kinky!!!
Miss Sheri Darling - Dominatrix in Orange County & Los Angeles 
