Category Archives: FinDom
October Update
Its so cute
the way he asks why he cant just come relax & watch tv with Me!
lol
Cause youre here to serve,
duh!!
August Hussy Update Time
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Los Angeles FinDom Miss Sheri Darling
There are few things that feel more satisfying than knowing you have sacrificed to serve Me. Sure Ill be amused for a bit by a slave who will pay for a cam session, or to send a tribute to be sweet. What I really enjoy is total power exchange. I want to hold the strings to you puppet, and control your every thought, your wallet and your cock. When My slaves become obsessed with Me is when I begin to feel worshipped, not because you sent Me $100 to watch Me smoke or bought Me yet another pair of shoes. A true financial worshipper wants the tribute to elevate Me & My lifestyle. I am accustomed to having slaves pay to fly Me around the world, to pay to become someone that I think about and gifting Me with endless surprises.
Mediocre wont do, fortunately for you slaves who love to spend~ My fetishes are expensive and I love to travel.
I am open for courting by true submissives with big bank accounts who wish to be molded to My liking.
Beg for it, sluts.
Post DomCon LA 2014 Update
DomConLA 2014 was so much fun! Heres a shot of Me with My favorite Ladies: Miss Eden Winter, Miss Lucy Khan, Myself & Dominique D’Vita We took a sec to pose together after the Mistress Dinner Thursday. I was the proud sponsor of the Mistress Dinner & I have to say that even with as much fun as this years was- I am very inspired to make next years Dinner twice as fun as this one was so watch out! Thank you slave for your contribution to the annual event that so much of Uus love. Im sorry you couldn’t join Uus, I thought of you a lot xo
Princess Kali is awesome! I had only heard of Her on twitter much like I hear of most kinksters. Princess is the founder of the Kink Academy & has been a ProDomme for over 14yrs I believe She said.. I sat in 3 of Her classes. First was a class on Humiliation. I really liked it. I often am torn with humiliation scenes and I now realize that its because I like to twist & pervert a guy to enjoy what I want him to enjoy. But now I understand more where the subs are coming from that enjoy humiliation. Perhaps Ill allow you humiliation pervs to amuse Me more often. I also enjoyed Her piss play class, super excited for when I get these little hands on one of you little toilet sluts again! And the last class I attended was Her Financial Fetish class, which I loved, duh! I liked that She seemed to have the same point of view as I do about “Financial Domination” in how We prefer Our slaves to elevate Us, not be someone We are dependent upon. I really liked meeting Princess Kali, how was I so late to the game?! So the above is a picture of Princess Kali & Her DomCon selfie with My boobs!
NAMM 2014 Domination
During the NAMM show in Anaheim Ill be offering sessions in Culver City (35mi away) as usual, as well as in North OC (10mi away) just 15 minutes from the Anaheim Convention Center. If you show Me your NAMM badge you will get a discount of $50 off every hour you book with Me. If you don’t have a NAMM badge to show Me you’re still in luck, sing your best “im a little teacup” to Me with all the moves & get a discount this weekend only. Overnights in the Culver City dungeon are a good option since I’m sure you convention attendees will be busy with business during the day. I’m also open to considering a humiliation dinner date public session at My location of choice nearby the Convention Center. Bring a special mix of your favorite music on an mp3 player when you visit My studio, if it doesn’t suck I might be game to let it play while Wwe play. Book sooner rather than later as My time is starting to book up. Don’t make Me regret this treat & maybe Ill have it be a yearly discount during NAMM only.
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Post Christmas Update
Whats coming up? Im doing a lot of puppy sitting for now while I continue to apartment shop in north OC. Shes a mischevious little fucker & Im keeping a constant eye on her so she doesn’t scratch or irritate her staples from her surgery. I am offering cam sessions with notice, as well as taking NiteFlirt calls most of the time since Im stuck at home & love having perverts amuse Me. I also got a realllly sexy ensemble from Abigail Greydanus which I think Ill have to arrange to have professional photos taken (slaves who want to sponsor that speak up & send Me a message)
Christmas Wishes
I love being spoiled all year around but here are a few ideas on My wish list:
Cash
4k debt paid off
Whole Foods gift cards *HERE*
PetCo gift cards *HERE*
PopPhysique monthly membership payments $150
Gas Cards *HERE*
Etsy e-gift cards *HERE*
Louboutin pumps & boots, size 37.
Handle the wishes on My wish list *HERE*
A 1k-10k gift voucher for *Fabulously Fetish* heels
Jewelry- silver, gold, rubies & diamonds are My favs.
1yr Membership at *Burke Williams Spa* ($80-150/mo)
Latex Vac Bed
I especially would really really enjoy a new *Puppy cage* in My new apartment
Tributes may be sent via Chase Quickpay to My email address, or by clicking & paying tribute via the Niteflirt buttons below ~ Id like to see the world & you can help make that happen xo
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Happy Holidays, perverts xo
Amsterdam / November Update
I know you pervs enjoy reading My blog & thanks! I get many compliments on how I’m so open about what I do & who I am- Ive got nothing to hide. Unlike the fake dommes who will tell you they’re “the real thing” and they’ve “been this dominant since they were born” but can only copy what they see- I’m just plain real. I share My experiences, I do what I like & I do what I want.
By the way, look at My copycat. Just have to laugh when girls cant think for themselves. Couldn’t help it, had to repost this, its just too funny lol
Time for a recap to catch you all up on what Ive been up to lately. My birthday was great, so different from last year though.. Gotta say, slaves truly show their colors when it comes to birthday & Christmas time. I hate to admit, but I can be let down! lol I appreciate everything I have and am fortunate enough to enjoy but sometimes when I feel slaves are lacking or lazy I feel that same way about them & it doesnt encourage Me to want to be generous.
I just returned from a lovely trip to New York & to Amsterdam with Miss Julie Simone. We always have so much fun together! We are definitely twice as powerful and twice as spoiled when We are together. We don’t simply stop to consider each of you begging for attention. I love how amusing slaves will be just to try to gain Our time, that’s what makes Me happy. The first stop was New York for a few days. Miss Julie took Me out to one of Her favorite clubs where We decided to take over a back room to get kinky & play. Spanking, foot & boot worship, I even served up My very own flavor of champagne to the good slave on hand. Lucky fuckers.
Ways to keep your Ds relationship safe from your vanilla life.
I know My clients and slaves tend to be married. They are attached to their families who they love very much & the life that they spent years building. I never in any way want to compromise anything that makes them happy. I have felt torn at times knowing that in the minds of wives this is cheating but I confidently believe that I am the only outlet for something so true & suppressed in so many different types of men. I love that I can be who I truly am on a daily basis & when they’re with Me they get to be who they secretly wish to be but keep hidden day in & day out. I know that its a lot of work to live a double life, I wish everybody was as fortunate as I am to feel accepted & loved without judgment for who I am and for who I want to be. My slaves mean more to Me than they might ever know. I accept them, I love them & I am completely protective over them.
I realized that not all of you are completely aware of small mistakes that can take big tolls on your vanilla lives & that is the reason behind this rant. I feel it is part of My job to inform you of suggestions which will hopefully protect you from harming your family or job. Here it goes..
First of all, try to get your partner to understand what you would like to try together. Buying some toys is a great way to let Her find the rush BDSM can bring into any relationship. Stockroom just came out with a line of toys that are great basics for any beginners. CLICK HERE to take a peek. When that doesn’t work….
- Get Separate Accounts- for everything.
- Separate email accounts. This way your new social networks aren’t tied to your vanilla email address. Same with phone number. Google voice will give you a free phone number with your new email account, use it to connect your kinky social networks if those apps ask for it.
- Google voice usage will still show up on your bill if you are using your cell phone, remember that. It is still an option to use it by calling or texting from your laptop instead of the phone since there will be no documented record of it on a bill.
- Separate social networking accounts. Having a way to express yourself, to be heard and share opinions on your new experiences is important to Uus all. Set up your new social networks using your new email account and phone numbers, this way when someone allows their apps to search their contacts for other people using the same app –your hidden account wont come up.
- To communicate with those who are being watched like a hawk I recommend using data messaging apps on your smart phone. It allows you to text others by using data which wont show up as text charges on your phone bill. Or use Instant Messenger from gmail or yahoo for the same reason, no trail of an email. All you need is Internet.
- Remember to delete your browsing history on your computer and also for your Instant Messenger programs. Ctrl+H is how you bring up the menu that gives you the option to delete your history on your web browser. Instant Messengers have a setting you can change to the option of not having your chat history saved, pick that option or remember to delete your chat history before you log out.
- Passwords are your friends. Put a password lock on your phone. Password your user account on a shared computer. Make sure the passwords are a little different on each account because what is the use in having to get one password to enter every social network & account possible? The more roadblocks the better. Taking things online by using data messaging systems vs using the phone to call or text is in My opinion the best way to remain undetected, just remember to always clear your history just in case.
- Separate bank accounts, establish shit before you begin your second life. This way wife doesn’t ask about your purchases or withdraws. Give her money for her separate account, this way she is taken care of & you will have your freedom to explore your kink privately. Or the second account can be completely your secret to avoid the whole “yours, mine & ours” debate. Another idea is to buy yourself gift cards to use as debit cards. Load it up so you’ll be ready to pay for those online gifts or dinner with your Miss if you should feel the want to serve in that way. I know its one thing to send money tributes which allow Us to enjoy the lifestyle that Wwe both want to enjoy but I know many of you also have the desire to surprise your Miss by buying things off a whishlist or website & this is one way to make it happen. Make sure you check the website you are shopping or buying off of to see what cards they accept such as a prepaid visa or mastercard and these can usually be bought at a drugstore or supermarket. It does require a little more legwork but if its worth it to you then its a great solution.
- Using cash is always best to avoid a money trail. It cant be tied to any specific thing so it can be explained away easier. Sending money orders in the mail has been a great way to transfer money for Me since My mailbox & POBox both have locks. If you prefer not sending money via mail then gift cards are best since they are usually easily transferable online. NetSpend reload packs work well & are simple to use. I sometimes will ask for it as a form of deposit for sessions for gentlemen who cant or wont go online for deposits because they have to be careful. Just go to a 711 or walgreens (or find distributors locations on netspends website) & pay for the gift cards with cash to completely eliminate the paper trail. The card is loaded & has a code on the back of it which you will give Me, it allows Me to go online to My netspend account & transfer that money to My account.
- If you buy yourself a giftcard with cash & then use it to add to your niteflirt account you can still call from your laptop & worship My voice & laugh. Ive even had guys use Skype to call from niteflirt on their computers. They’re usually out of the country but it would still work if you’re just avoiding the phone bill proof of calling -Me- and the bill proof of reloading your niteflirt.
- Time – your family & friends will notice if you suddenly stop doing the things that you normally do or are suddenly missing for hours at a time. So be busy before you start a second life, keep busy, have a hobby, maintain your current responsibilities & lifestyle.The goal should be to find a way to routinely slice out time that can eventually be used for fun.
- Have an alibi – if you say you’re going somewhere then actually go & preferably have some proof. It can be a picture of where you went, it can be a receipt or an online check in on your vanilla Facebook account. Do something to show where you’ve been. This way any additional time away can & will be easily explained away.
- Don’t fall in love with Me – what Wwe have is a Ds relationship & although it can become intense I am not your primary partner. I have very clear boundaries so confusing things & blurring the lines will not be good for you, Me or anybody.
- If they find out… I suggest minimizing everything. Few people will understand but both you & I know how much & exactly what Wwe mean for each other & I’m satisfied with that. I completely respect your need for privacy & will not attempt to contact you first, ever but especially not if you tell Me you hit a bump in the relationship road. I am always here for My pets & slaves if they need Me to listen, make suggestions or just distract them.
I know people might feel betrayed or concerned for your health/safety even though you & I know what we practice is safe, sane & consensual kink. Yes, the consequence of having to face someone who isn’t open minded or just doesn’t get it really sucks, and hurts. For that I’m sorry, I wish I was powerful enough to eliminate & protect you from that. Ive had My fair share of instances where I had to defend My kink. Seeing Me happy was important to those close to Me who love Me & those are the people who I value the most in life.
It isn’t easy & there is a small price to pay if you’re secretly kinky. But its so worth it to enjoy the bliss of what true Ds relationships offer I think. I enjoy being served in a variety of ways & each slave I allow to serve Me is special to Me & not taken lightly. I think if you follow these suggestions you will be able to experience kink & know if its truly what you enjoy & want to be a part of your lifestyle. And when you realize you cant go back after being kinky & that you deserve to be happy you can fly your freak flag high & proud with Me & tell those narrow minded people to eat shit. xo
Miss Sheri Darling - Dominatrix in Orange County & Los Angeles 
