Category Archives: niteflirt
New Blog Update
DommeTrips photoshoot with TommyO
Holiday Update
1 Living in HB ~ I hated the one year I moved away from being close to the calming beaches of OC. We have the best beaches, best weather, hottest people. Being centrally located between SD & LA means that its not a terrible drive if theres something or someone I fancy getting to in either direction. I feel like LA & OC people are just two different breeds, and I do feel like we in OC are the more special, cuter pure breed! I am much happier back where I belong.
2. Fun clients & slaves ~ I wouldn’t have fun as a Domme if it weren’t for perverts who are open minded & who allow Me to be the creative, sadistic, dominant fetishist I am. I feel like there’s a certain amount of give & take between any Ds relationship & if I wasn’t getting what I want then I wouldn’t bother with being a pro at all. Being worshipped for the cunty, demanding yet compassionate Mistress that I am is pretty ideal. Devotion & loyalty of My slaves are what allows Me to feel supported throughout the year so special thanks to you slave m & slave g for always being there for Me.
3. My Team ~ I have worked with all kinds of people in the scene. Some bat shit crazy. Some under cover haters. Some are just out of this world awesome & actually get Me! Big thanks to Abigail Greydanus latex, Tommy O photos & the perverts over at FetishKitsch.com. Without you guys Id have to settle with just ok & pretend Im happy with the outcome. And we all know Im not good at faking it 🙂
December 14pm-15am overnight booked
December 16 is nail day, a great day for public humiliation in Beverly Hills
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Shop My *wishlist*, keep Me happy.
Any day not mentioned above are great days to take Me shopping, meet Me for a session in My dungeon or to play on cam together!
you can always serve Me on My Niteflirt.com/SheriDarling phonesex lines,
by listening to My pre recorded kinky stories
or by helping yourself to My pay to view images available 24/7
Lets get kinky!
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Post Move Hussy Update Time
Treat yourself to My first Goodie Bag posted on Niteflirt at http://www.niteflirt.com/goody/search?text=sheri%20darling I was selected to test some new features & am doing so with a smile! I love that theyre adding features which will let you sluts find & buy more of My sexy teases. Make sure to buy, give good feedback & also click like so that My content gets promoted more! Look out for more being posted very soon! This first goodie bag features 7 of My most popular animated smoking fetish images, enjoy!Amsterdam / November Update
I know you pervs enjoy reading My blog & thanks! I get many compliments on how I’m so open about what I do & who I am- Ive got nothing to hide. Unlike the fake dommes who will tell you they’re “the real thing” and they’ve “been this dominant since they were born” but can only copy what they see- I’m just plain real. I share My experiences, I do what I like & I do what I want.
By the way, look at My copycat. Just have to laugh when girls cant think for themselves. Couldn’t help it, had to repost this, its just too funny lol
Time for a recap to catch you all up on what Ive been up to lately. My birthday was great, so different from last year though.. Gotta say, slaves truly show their colors when it comes to birthday & Christmas time. I hate to admit, but I can be let down! lol I appreciate everything I have and am fortunate enough to enjoy but sometimes when I feel slaves are lacking or lazy I feel that same way about them & it doesnt encourage Me to want to be generous.
I just returned from a lovely trip to New York & to Amsterdam with Miss Julie Simone. We always have so much fun together! We are definitely twice as powerful and twice as spoiled when We are together. We don’t simply stop to consider each of you begging for attention. I love how amusing slaves will be just to try to gain Our time, that’s what makes Me happy. The first stop was New York for a few days. Miss Julie took Me out to one of Her favorite clubs where We decided to take over a back room to get kinky & play. Spanking, foot & boot worship, I even served up My very own flavor of champagne to the good slave on hand. Lucky fuckers.
Ways to keep your Ds relationship safe from your vanilla life.
I know My clients and slaves tend to be married. They are attached to their families who they love very much & the life that they spent years building. I never in any way want to compromise anything that makes them happy. I have felt torn at times knowing that in the minds of wives this is cheating but I confidently believe that I am the only outlet for something so true & suppressed in so many different types of men. I love that I can be who I truly am on a daily basis & when they’re with Me they get to be who they secretly wish to be but keep hidden day in & day out. I know that its a lot of work to live a double life, I wish everybody was as fortunate as I am to feel accepted & loved without judgment for who I am and for who I want to be. My slaves mean more to Me than they might ever know. I accept them, I love them & I am completely protective over them.
I realized that not all of you are completely aware of small mistakes that can take big tolls on your vanilla lives & that is the reason behind this rant. I feel it is part of My job to inform you of suggestions which will hopefully protect you from harming your family or job. Here it goes..
First of all, try to get your partner to understand what you would like to try together. Buying some toys is a great way to let Her find the rush BDSM can bring into any relationship. Stockroom just came out with a line of toys that are great basics for any beginners. CLICK HERE to take a peek. When that doesn’t work….
- Get Separate Accounts- for everything.
- Separate email accounts. This way your new social networks aren’t tied to your vanilla email address. Same with phone number. Google voice will give you a free phone number with your new email account, use it to connect your kinky social networks if those apps ask for it.
- Google voice usage will still show up on your bill if you are using your cell phone, remember that. It is still an option to use it by calling or texting from your laptop instead of the phone since there will be no documented record of it on a bill.
- Separate social networking accounts. Having a way to express yourself, to be heard and share opinions on your new experiences is important to Uus all. Set up your new social networks using your new email account and phone numbers, this way when someone allows their apps to search their contacts for other people using the same app –your hidden account wont come up.
- To communicate with those who are being watched like a hawk I recommend using data messaging apps on your smart phone. It allows you to text others by using data which wont show up as text charges on your phone bill. Or use Instant Messenger from gmail or yahoo for the same reason, no trail of an email. All you need is Internet.
- Remember to delete your browsing history on your computer and also for your Instant Messenger programs. Ctrl+H is how you bring up the menu that gives you the option to delete your history on your web browser. Instant Messengers have a setting you can change to the option of not having your chat history saved, pick that option or remember to delete your chat history before you log out.
- Passwords are your friends. Put a password lock on your phone. Password your user account on a shared computer. Make sure the passwords are a little different on each account because what is the use in having to get one password to enter every social network & account possible? The more roadblocks the better. Taking things online by using data messaging systems vs using the phone to call or text is in My opinion the best way to remain undetected, just remember to always clear your history just in case.
- Separate bank accounts, establish shit before you begin your second life. This way wife doesn’t ask about your purchases or withdraws. Give her money for her separate account, this way she is taken care of & you will have your freedom to explore your kink privately. Or the second account can be completely your secret to avoid the whole “yours, mine & ours” debate. Another idea is to buy yourself gift cards to use as debit cards. Load it up so you’ll be ready to pay for those online gifts or dinner with your Miss if you should feel the want to serve in that way. I know its one thing to send money tributes which allow Us to enjoy the lifestyle that Wwe both want to enjoy but I know many of you also have the desire to surprise your Miss by buying things off a whishlist or website & this is one way to make it happen. Make sure you check the website you are shopping or buying off of to see what cards they accept such as a prepaid visa or mastercard and these can usually be bought at a drugstore or supermarket. It does require a little more legwork but if its worth it to you then its a great solution.
- Using cash is always best to avoid a money trail. It cant be tied to any specific thing so it can be explained away easier. Sending money orders in the mail has been a great way to transfer money for Me since My mailbox & POBox both have locks. If you prefer not sending money via mail then gift cards are best since they are usually easily transferable online. NetSpend reload packs work well & are simple to use. I sometimes will ask for it as a form of deposit for sessions for gentlemen who cant or wont go online for deposits because they have to be careful. Just go to a 711 or walgreens (or find distributors locations on netspends website) & pay for the gift cards with cash to completely eliminate the paper trail. The card is loaded & has a code on the back of it which you will give Me, it allows Me to go online to My netspend account & transfer that money to My account.
- If you buy yourself a giftcard with cash & then use it to add to your niteflirt account you can still call from your laptop & worship My voice & laugh. Ive even had guys use Skype to call from niteflirt on their computers. They’re usually out of the country but it would still work if you’re just avoiding the phone bill proof of calling -Me- and the bill proof of reloading your niteflirt.
- Time – your family & friends will notice if you suddenly stop doing the things that you normally do or are suddenly missing for hours at a time. So be busy before you start a second life, keep busy, have a hobby, maintain your current responsibilities & lifestyle.The goal should be to find a way to routinely slice out time that can eventually be used for fun.
- Have an alibi – if you say you’re going somewhere then actually go & preferably have some proof. It can be a picture of where you went, it can be a receipt or an online check in on your vanilla Facebook account. Do something to show where you’ve been. This way any additional time away can & will be easily explained away.
- Don’t fall in love with Me – what Wwe have is a Ds relationship & although it can become intense I am not your primary partner. I have very clear boundaries so confusing things & blurring the lines will not be good for you, Me or anybody.
- If they find out… I suggest minimizing everything. Few people will understand but both you & I know how much & exactly what Wwe mean for each other & I’m satisfied with that. I completely respect your need for privacy & will not attempt to contact you first, ever but especially not if you tell Me you hit a bump in the relationship road. I am always here for My pets & slaves if they need Me to listen, make suggestions or just distract them.
I know people might feel betrayed or concerned for your health/safety even though you & I know what we practice is safe, sane & consensual kink. Yes, the consequence of having to face someone who isn’t open minded or just doesn’t get it really sucks, and hurts. For that I’m sorry, I wish I was powerful enough to eliminate & protect you from that. Ive had My fair share of instances where I had to defend My kink. Seeing Me happy was important to those close to Me who love Me & those are the people who I value the most in life.
It isn’t easy & there is a small price to pay if you’re secretly kinky. But its so worth it to enjoy the bliss of what true Ds relationships offer I think. I enjoy being served in a variety of ways & each slave I allow to serve Me is special to Me & not taken lightly. I think if you follow these suggestions you will be able to experience kink & know if its truly what you enjoy & want to be a part of your lifestyle. And when you realize you cant go back after being kinky & that you deserve to be happy you can fly your freak flag high & proud with Me & tell those narrow minded people to eat shit. xo
Mid October Recap
Miss Sheri Darling visiting New York Oct 8 – 14th
September Update
This sissy has been extremely attentive and although she is constantly keeping her attention on Me, she isn’t wasting My time with things she wishes or problems she cant solve. My sissy is so sweet! This month has been crazy between the time I haven’t been able to drive due to car maintenance & then getting the car back to enjoy some very fun sessions, then being spoiled rotten while at home during even more car maintenance. My sissy paulina & I decided that she needed an owner, and I have placed her under consideration to be collared as My property upon serving Me properly over the next year. I know we are both excited, what a lucky sissy, Im feeling very fortunate to add another loyal, thoughtful & sweet slave to My collection. My collared slave “slaveforSheri” has been extremely sweet and attentive as well, he will be visiting this coming weekend to spend some time serving Me. I cannot wait! There are so many things I have cooking up in My dirty mind for our time together. I love planning things for Us to do when we get time together 🙂
Miss Julie Simone visited this weekend. I promptly made arrangements to see Her & present Her with some gorgeous custom stockings I stumbled upon. I thought it was a sexy luxurious item She would love so I ordered a couple pairs for Us both 🙂 We had a lovely dinner in Hollywood, caught up & also began to make more plans for some Hussy play time. There may be a Girls trip in the near future which would provide a few good slaves the opportunity to serve My need to travel. Stay tuned for more info as I make plans. What thrilled Me was how happy She seemed to see the surprise I gifted Her, Im so subby for Her its nuts! lol Shes the only Domme to make Me swoon like that.
Miss Julie is always on the go when in town but We did manage to hit the Black Unicorn vs Bondage Ball party at the Dragonfly Friday night, where We ran into Dvita & Masuimi Max. Masuimi performed a new act which, as usual, She looked stunning & sexy, the crowd loved it. I decided to wear this black with transparent black latex gown & matching opera length gloves My slave bought Me a few months ago out for the first time! It was a hit, as is all the custom latex that Abigail Greydanus makes Me. I love that Lady, Shes also designing more theme outfits for slave & I to wear in Dominican next month! Anyways, I found Myself dancing in front of one of the gorgeous boys on stage, who was wearing boots, hotpants & a mask- hot. I love it when everybody goes all out on their outfits, love Me some good fashion eye candy. I wish there were more perverts in LA who went out & dressed up!
What’s new?
September-October
- My slave is flying in to see Me this week!
- My dungeon is having another one of Our Notorious Multi Mistress Play Parties! Join Us.
- I’m ironing down dates for My New York visit early next month. Check My website calendar.
- There are few days allowing opportunities to serve during October, please be sure to plan ahead to gain the best opportunity to serve while I am available.
November
- My birthday is November 22nd, I updated My wish list HERE
- End of the month secret Girls trip – at least 4k needed for flight, hotel, taxi & food. More details coming! Ask for details on how to contribute toward My fun!
I just swooped up a new video camera which Im going to go play with right now! Not sure exactly how often Ill record or what the game plan is other than to have some fun teasing you perverts!
Montreal Fetish Weekend 2013
Miss Sheri Darling - Dominatrix in Orange County & Los Angeles 
