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Los Angeles FinDom Miss Sheri Darling
There are few things that feel more satisfying than knowing you have sacrificed to serve Me. Sure Ill be amused for a bit by a slave who will pay for a cam session, or to send a tribute to be sweet. What I really enjoy is total power exchange. I want to hold the strings to you puppet, and control your every thought, your wallet and your cock. When My slaves become obsessed with Me is when I begin to feel worshipped, not because you sent Me $100 to watch Me smoke or bought Me yet another pair of shoes. A true financial worshipper wants the tribute to elevate Me & My lifestyle. I am accustomed to having slaves pay to fly Me around the world, to pay to become someone that I think about and gifting Me with endless surprises.
Mediocre wont do, fortunately for you slaves who love to spend~ My fetishes are expensive and I love to travel.
I am open for courting by true submissives with big bank accounts who wish to be molded to My liking.
Beg for it, sluts.
Miss Sheri Darling by Sardax
Ways to keep your Ds relationship safe from your vanilla life.
I know My clients and slaves tend to be married. They are attached to their families who they love very much & the life that they spent years building. I never in any way want to compromise anything that makes them happy. I have felt torn at times knowing that in the minds of wives this is cheating but I confidently believe that I am the only outlet for something so true & suppressed in so many different types of men. I love that I can be who I truly am on a daily basis & when they’re with Me they get to be who they secretly wish to be but keep hidden day in & day out. I know that its a lot of work to live a double life, I wish everybody was as fortunate as I am to feel accepted & loved without judgment for who I am and for who I want to be. My slaves mean more to Me than they might ever know. I accept them, I love them & I am completely protective over them.
I realized that not all of you are completely aware of small mistakes that can take big tolls on your vanilla lives & that is the reason behind this rant. I feel it is part of My job to inform you of suggestions which will hopefully protect you from harming your family or job. Here it goes..
First of all, try to get your partner to understand what you would like to try together. Buying some toys is a great way to let Her find the rush BDSM can bring into any relationship. Stockroom just came out with a line of toys that are great basics for any beginners. CLICK HERE to take a peek. When that doesn’t work….
- Get Separate Accounts- for everything.
- Separate email accounts. This way your new social networks aren’t tied to your vanilla email address. Same with phone number. Google voice will give you a free phone number with your new email account, use it to connect your kinky social networks if those apps ask for it.
- Google voice usage will still show up on your bill if you are using your cell phone, remember that. It is still an option to use it by calling or texting from your laptop instead of the phone since there will be no documented record of it on a bill.
- Separate social networking accounts. Having a way to express yourself, to be heard and share opinions on your new experiences is important to Uus all. Set up your new social networks using your new email account and phone numbers, this way when someone allows their apps to search their contacts for other people using the same app –your hidden account wont come up.
- To communicate with those who are being watched like a hawk I recommend using data messaging apps on your smart phone. It allows you to text others by using data which wont show up as text charges on your phone bill. Or use Instant Messenger from gmail or yahoo for the same reason, no trail of an email. All you need is Internet.
- Remember to delete your browsing history on your computer and also for your Instant Messenger programs. Ctrl+H is how you bring up the menu that gives you the option to delete your history on your web browser. Instant Messengers have a setting you can change to the option of not having your chat history saved, pick that option or remember to delete your chat history before you log out.
- Passwords are your friends. Put a password lock on your phone. Password your user account on a shared computer. Make sure the passwords are a little different on each account because what is the use in having to get one password to enter every social network & account possible? The more roadblocks the better. Taking things online by using data messaging systems vs using the phone to call or text is in My opinion the best way to remain undetected, just remember to always clear your history just in case.
- Separate bank accounts, establish shit before you begin your second life. This way wife doesn’t ask about your purchases or withdraws. Give her money for her separate account, this way she is taken care of & you will have your freedom to explore your kink privately. Or the second account can be completely your secret to avoid the whole “yours, mine & ours” debate. Another idea is to buy yourself gift cards to use as debit cards. Load it up so you’ll be ready to pay for those online gifts or dinner with your Miss if you should feel the want to serve in that way. I know its one thing to send money tributes which allow Us to enjoy the lifestyle that Wwe both want to enjoy but I know many of you also have the desire to surprise your Miss by buying things off a whishlist or website & this is one way to make it happen. Make sure you check the website you are shopping or buying off of to see what cards they accept such as a prepaid visa or mastercard and these can usually be bought at a drugstore or supermarket. It does require a little more legwork but if its worth it to you then its a great solution.
- Using cash is always best to avoid a money trail. It cant be tied to any specific thing so it can be explained away easier. Sending money orders in the mail has been a great way to transfer money for Me since My mailbox & POBox both have locks. If you prefer not sending money via mail then gift cards are best since they are usually easily transferable online. NetSpend reload packs work well & are simple to use. I sometimes will ask for it as a form of deposit for sessions for gentlemen who cant or wont go online for deposits because they have to be careful. Just go to a 711 or walgreens (or find distributors locations on netspends website) & pay for the gift cards with cash to completely eliminate the paper trail. The card is loaded & has a code on the back of it which you will give Me, it allows Me to go online to My netspend account & transfer that money to My account.
- If you buy yourself a giftcard with cash & then use it to add to your niteflirt account you can still call from your laptop & worship My voice & laugh. Ive even had guys use Skype to call from niteflirt on their computers. They’re usually out of the country but it would still work if you’re just avoiding the phone bill proof of calling -Me- and the bill proof of reloading your niteflirt.
- Time – your family & friends will notice if you suddenly stop doing the things that you normally do or are suddenly missing for hours at a time. So be busy before you start a second life, keep busy, have a hobby, maintain your current responsibilities & lifestyle.The goal should be to find a way to routinely slice out time that can eventually be used for fun.
- Have an alibi – if you say you’re going somewhere then actually go & preferably have some proof. It can be a picture of where you went, it can be a receipt or an online check in on your vanilla Facebook account. Do something to show where you’ve been. This way any additional time away can & will be easily explained away.
- Don’t fall in love with Me – what Wwe have is a Ds relationship & although it can become intense I am not your primary partner. I have very clear boundaries so confusing things & blurring the lines will not be good for you, Me or anybody.
- If they find out… I suggest minimizing everything. Few people will understand but both you & I know how much & exactly what Wwe mean for each other & I’m satisfied with that. I completely respect your need for privacy & will not attempt to contact you first, ever but especially not if you tell Me you hit a bump in the relationship road. I am always here for My pets & slaves if they need Me to listen, make suggestions or just distract them.
I know people might feel betrayed or concerned for your health/safety even though you & I know what we practice is safe, sane & consensual kink. Yes, the consequence of having to face someone who isn’t open minded or just doesn’t get it really sucks, and hurts. For that I’m sorry, I wish I was powerful enough to eliminate & protect you from that. Ive had My fair share of instances where I had to defend My kink. Seeing Me happy was important to those close to Me who love Me & those are the people who I value the most in life.
It isn’t easy & there is a small price to pay if you’re secretly kinky. But its so worth it to enjoy the bliss of what true Ds relationships offer I think. I enjoy being served in a variety of ways & each slave I allow to serve Me is special to Me & not taken lightly. I think if you follow these suggestions you will be able to experience kink & know if its truly what you enjoy & want to be a part of your lifestyle. And when you realize you cant go back after being kinky & that you deserve to be happy you can fly your freak flag high & proud with Me & tell those narrow minded people to eat shit. xo
Birthday Wishes
Hello perverts!
My Birthday is November 22nd
While Ive been thinking of lovely gifts that Id enjoy I decided to make a list:
- $4,000 debt paid off
- Louboutin Monicarina Over-The-Knee Leather Platform Boots
- Louboutin Daffodile Platform Red Sole Pumps, Any Color -Black or Nude priority.
- Surprise Me with any Louboutin, YSL, Chanel or Bebe boots size 7 or 37, 37.5
- A 1k-10k gift voucher for Fabulously Fetish heels
- 5k toward moving in December (1st month rent, last month plus deposit & moving costs) slave p is taking care of this, thank youuuu xo
- Jewelry
- Ticketmaster gift cards
- Amazon egift cards
- 1yr VIP Membership to PopPhysique would be so amazing! ($1700)
- 1yr Membership at Burke Williams Spa ($80-150/mo)
- Latex Vac Bed
- Puppy cage
- Any or all of the whips on My wishlist HERE
And last but not least I want your ass submitting to Me! Worship Me extra hard and make Me smile for My birthday 🙂
Tributes may be sent via Chase Quickpay to My email address, or by clicking & paying tribute via the Niteflirt buttons below. All tributes will likely go toward bills since I am going to be on the road at least a week each month plus travel expenses for AMSTERDAM, PARIS, LONDON & VEGAS ~ Id like to see the world & you can help make that happen xo
Tribute $100 
Tribute $200
Tribute $500
Tribute $1000
Thanks sluts. I might make some additions or HOPEfully cross of an item or two if they get taken care of by then.
xo Miss Sheri
Whats new?
I have a few things planned I’m extremely happy about 🙂
happier than I usually am I should say.
Busy busy Monday, plus I have tons scheduled every day this week after morning ass kicking at Butt School
(new workout routine I’m doing).
I have a fetish for boots, so about half of the shoes I own are boots. High heel, flats, leather, canvas, thigh high, shiny & ankle boots.. I cant get enough. I feel like there’s a boot for every occasion, and I’m determined to collect them all! I have a few foot guys who enjoy calling Me on NiteFlirt to hear about My collection of heels & boots. Its so fun describing them, its My kink too so I love being a tease. Oh by the way they could really use a polish….. Anyways, I have one of those perverts coming in to see them all. Its going to be a bitch hauling them to the studio but it’ll be soooo worth it having them all worshipped & cleaned. I love being what men crave, I love being what they obsess over. Especially when we share one or a few of My many fetishes.
Another fetish I love indulging in..
I have dedicated a closet in My apartment to being a “cock whore closet”. I have a fantasy that a boy will arrive, have his boy clothes locked away & then would have access to the fully stocked cock whore closet. Heels, dresses, toys, accessories, lingerie & a few other goodies are living in there just waiting till a sissy slut comes back.. Although My slave visits, I have a session planned this week that will allow Me to make more good use of it! I plan to take this gurl all over town. From serving Me domestically, to going out for cocktails & then likely ending the night at the dungeon. I plan to turn this hussy into a rope rigged damsel, after she does My chores of course (and possibly during)… Then getting her tipsy & having even more fun- if she is a good gurl. Which I’m sure she will be. I remember the first time we played, I could not keep My hands off her… *memories*
Im having dinner this week with one of My favorite whipping posts 😉 Its crazy how times flies. Beating him really allows Me to explore the blood thirsty sadist I am deep inside. I love how he simply loves watching Me as I use all sorts of evil toys on him.. Ive had more dinners with him this year than beat downs, I hope that changes – simply because I hate the way that sounds lol 😉 See above picture, a great picture of some artwork I did on him 🙂
I have a ton of shit planned this week, those being a few of them…
I’m ending the week right with a slut a thon! lol My dungeon is hosting another multi Mistress party where only the best slutty & submissive slaves are Our entertainment. Id love for some of you perverts to come out & be My slut. I don’t currently have a main slut on My arm so Ill be harassing all your fuckholes until I’m pleased. Basically its like paying for a session, then you get be used to amuse Us for the entire evening. SLUT, meaning a Mistress will kneel you at the glory hole like you’ve always dreamed of, perhaps spark the interest of a couple Mistresses & be the star in your very own strapon gangbang, multi Mistress toilet play is possible, as well as endless worship possibilities. Masochists are a plus, be a good boi & make a bee line to Me for punishment & reward that will have your head spinning xo Here is the link, please contact Me if you are interested in attending so I may look out for you!
Im sure a newbie or two will earn a place at My feet this week, I always look forward to firsts with a new play partner almost as much as I enjoy pushing limits with some of My favorite boys.. Cant wait to see all your slutty faces!
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Miss Sheri Darling - Dominatrix in Orange County & Los Angeles 
